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* for every post from this category we confess all failures and disappointments and the good tides of always staying true to ones  life’s goals and coarse when were still sailing away in life , inshort welcome to the good & bad of what happened last week!

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Today, am confessing on all my recent to be exact last week’s procrastinating case study! guys*, ( hahaha,…)

Honestly. I was super bored! all through last week though really, the much struggle or hurdle was having my last weeks ( Every Wednesday’s ) blog post up and don’t get me started on how confused i was writing it on the same day it was meant to be published ugh!


Why do I do this things to myself ?… i really hate running late, or having to do my work on a limited space or constrained supervision Or Time limit . I literally break down and get confused not knowing how, when, or Why??? … at that particular situation and god! does it get worse when am the pro , in procrastination when it kicks in, i feel like am not going to be perfect everyday,  I won’t always want to do it but i get it done! anyways and that helps more in not forgetting its every small step I Choose to make today and everyday to be exact! in my daily living of life . That  connect me with my readers every Wednesday’s and Thursdays  that keeps you visiting and saying hi, on to me through my  comments and blog posts read , plus my overall site and  How I suck low when i think about you ,  reader so to be honest its a struggle always but we always have to keep up, whether we feel like it or not, we must choose to show up! in it all . ( SIGHS !)

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That’s why, ” A YEAR FROM NOW YOU MAY WISH YOU STARTED TODAY! “… No one knows about tomorrow but doing your best today, actually trying to take up that lousy, don’t want to do it, ain’t feeling like it, task easens out your unknown tomorrow, LETS think about it like this, if every night you always slept the previous night having arranged your next day’s outfit and had your, documents , or your overnight oats frozen for Your next day breakfast meal,your shoes are neat & clean for your next day’s school day or work place for that Monday office meeting,  every week. Clearing up, or just being conscious about your next day  helps you save time and clears you up for those few things that are obvious or just appeared and are urgent then.

But mostly to me its waking up late or 5mins LATE!  ( it happens , you know what i mean…)

Finally, there’s always time for everything the lousy, am not in the mood type of days and the best, good YES! AM SUPER ENERGETIC AND MOTIVATED type of days as well as the normal days of just being at work, Right?.

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If you or don’t listen to LEWIS HOWES SCHOOL OF GREATNESS PODCAST OR THE YOUTUBE POWER HOUR BY ERIKA VIERRA. And If your a fellow content creator, or youtuber you should definitely check out erika for all the juice, on how to kill it on YouTube before the year ends. This 2 have always been my fav podcast to jump start my mornings or help me get back to energy and steam me to work by raising my moods up through the teachings but mostly motivational interviews held by mostly Mr . LEWIS HOWES (I love those Most ! )

so anyways, from confessing all about my lazy ass last week, i just want to be real and share some of my fav podcasts and jams, that i use to get me back to MOTIVATION AND INSPIRE ME TO DO MY BEST EVERY DAY! ( As i write this blog post, am listening to my fav tunes , also shared below so am not to be lazy, writing out here! ) .

listen dear, you got to learn how to trick or learn a new skill to keep up, with your work and for me listening to the following 90’s ( Mayb ) *chuckles… jams is just apart that allows me not to scream when my work is overwhelming or overloaded I Literally dance and sing along my planned work or projects, peacefully and this keeps me in good spirits just by listening to them,  This i confess is my secret to staying motivated mostly wheen i feel lousy or not in the mood .

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HEY! Every Little Thing I Do

Montell Jordan – This Is How We Do It

Mariah Carey – Emotions

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Whitney Houston – It’s Not Right But It’s Okay


I hope you enjoyed reading today’s post, I will be posting a lot more on this category CONFESSING LOADS! And so if you would also like to join me do leave a comment down below and all definitely want to hear from you and share as well!





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If there’s anything ave learnt about life and circumstances is that you need to breath in and take it a day at a time in whatever and way you are abled by God to hold darlings!,

Life has this mystic rhythm way of just being what or how it chooses or pleases to unfold and Be and it absolutely has nothing to do with the results but what matters is the HOW TO…  Do, Move, Turn, or Be. No matter the circumstances because not everything is meant To be as it is really.

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When they say the best is yet to come, believe it and don’t doubt it!, positivity is like the cream or lubrication in life to slide you through it all *really. It evens everything out smoothly and yes! even the ones that seem to be so worst, literally somehow turn out to be the best things at the end of the day. Chasing your dreams should literally, scare you  and give you courage at the same time. I know what your thinking and saying by now ” what do you mean “,  * well…


But seriously though, sit down, and think about it calmly, if your too scared then your definitely inwardly still having that certain curiosity there is in every individual but mostly go getters, of whats behind that  door this literally leads and  adds you up to the force that pushes you to take up! that leap of faith and run with it either way. ( Normal people call it A RISK .)

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Am always very pessimistic about life’s DO’S AND DON’T S and the normalcy Mentality were forced to accept everyday though they differ with what God had in store for us .But their things now being an adult and a fiance to the lover of my life * things I choose to personally differ with NOT MOST but Some . Its everything in this World / social systems may be even if its not everything there’s at least something always,




If it was as easy we’d all choose to be Billionaires, Successful, leaders, Entrepreneurs and God only knows what our hearts desires, but its a good thing to want the best but the trick is here and probably the why we don’t wake up RICH! IN WEALTH like we keep dreaming .

let me explain the why? as we begin this.

  • Your easily and always being drifted away from the goals you’ve set by mere phone beeps!, Noise & distractions, procrastinating, and that eventually leads us to be that guy whose always waiting to be a  billionaire somehow in his dreams! couch or bed at night/day
  •   when you already know success is  a choice and you won’t get there, being lazy, wimpy and frustrated or confused, You somehow develop or open your mind to an understanding where you have to start no matter what or how you are to keep paddling harder and harder through the sea and fog so the choice of understanding that unless you choose to get yourself in that Mental state and take up that choice of facing up to your own truth to realize you can use what you have to get you there or at least close enough to it is much hopeful than sitting down and waiting for it!.  But the WORK is in THE DOING.
  • Being able to willfully force or push yourself to DO It at all cost no matter what and being fully responsible to take up the yoke of hardship and commitment and by embracing this Truth and placing it on your shoulders is all it takes to get you closer and closer everyday to your Billionaire dreams that you’ve always hoped  for.
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  • Friends bring to us cheer, Merry and to the dear ones comfort, in time of it but you see you have to sit down and differentiate who is a friend in need and a friend in deed!. ITS NOT EASY differentiating THE TWO IN OUR FRIENDSHIP CIRCLES BUT SOMETIMES just noticing the difference and creating boundaries to guard your inner peace is just one way of doing it and the respect you get from doing so is always so worth while even in long-term meet ups and future merry celebrations together with them, BUT FIRST SET YOUR BOUNDARIES AND ADD TAX! in your life when it comes to friendship circles or anyone really.


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  • When you walk inside a room full of people, how do they perceive you, what do they know or think they know about you?. Can you be able to silence all those doubt cries and ego voices and gentle whisper back at yourself but mostly your Mind and say . I am who God Created me to be, and I am wonderfully & beautifully  made in his perfection and so my thoughts are the only things that matter above all else.
  • How I perceive myself, How I see myself, How I carry myself around without anyone complimenting me about anything Or watching me is who I am and i should embrace my flaws,scars, past experiences with pride since none other has passed through them and can tell a better story about me apart from ME .
  • I always hold My TRUTH inwardly though, don’t we all  But Learning and choosing yourself over anything else first helps you to smoothly understand Life & nature and how it all works out a rhythm to make of what you perceive yourself to be from your thoughts and easily recognizing as you cherish the beautiful inner gifts you have, and the good memories you hold is what makes you YOU And that’s always the best Reality Truth or lets call it thing you’d ever do in your life . Everyday ask yourself what matters most to yourself and inner most being, then you will be able to focus more clearer to your goals and have a drive to reach them .


I hope you, will allow yourself and give yourself enough time to let your Heart search your Mind and your mind your thoughts  but first seek GOD, for he will guide you through it all, Trust on him and do not let your guard down in this life journey for HE IS GOD and HE IS FOREVER ABLE AND WILLING to help us no matter the situation or circumstance. OUR GOD IS a GOD OF POSSIBILITIES ALWAYS. Keep your trust on him.

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